What did make me feel better was when I told a guy friend why I had to bail on sunday, the day I found out he has a new gf and pronounced it to the world via fb (which, btw he never did w/ me), my friend was outraged for me. He said woha are you kidding me? Omg so awful. That's not cool, there's a certain amount of protocol to follow, not cool. So...in some small way that made me feel better that somehow I feel less bad how it all ended, that I was tragically crying in front of him when I found out. some of my pride got saved when my friend said that what he did wasn't cool. I mean, he broke up w/ me so ya he can do whatever he wants? But sure I'll take small comfort in knowing that what he didn't was up to the "bro standard"