if i don't want to do something, i am not going to do it. i will compromise in certain situations, but otherwise, i just don't want to do it.
why can't ppl understand that?
or am i the one in the wrong here? should i give in and just do it? no... when i don't have the desire to do something, it just gets in my head that i absolutely do not want to do it, especially when i don't see the need to.
Thursday, September 9, 2010
he wants to go to lunch w/ me
no, unfortunately, it's not a romantic request. it's a request from a director at work. one that i really get annoyed w/ b/c our personalities could not be more... opposite. i find him a tad too contrive and fake, except i know that's how he really is. i just can't fake it anymore. in life, in everywhere. i don't see a need for us to have an hr's lunch together. and quite frankly, i like to spend my lunch time doing nothing things, such as running errands, walking, doing things on my own, watching tennis videos. so... sorry, no i don't want to have lunch w/ you this friday, next monday or any other day. if that offends you, then just realize... it's just business, it's not personal...well maybe a little personal b/c i don't want to get personal w/ you. capisce?!
stubborn and unyielding
i've found out recently i'm quite stubborn and inflexible. i refuse to get up at 8am on a saturday, my day off, to go to the home design show... 8am... even if i do wake up at 8am, it doesn't mean i'm ready to move out of bed and to be up and ready to go... so.. i'm sorry, if i seem like an unyielding and inflexible friend, but sometimes, scheduling just doesn't work out. so.... knowing how annoyed you might feel, i feel YOU should be flexible in your temperament and just chill and realize it's okay if we can't go together.
it's been awhile
it's been awhile b/c that's b/c i now have a new phone and haven't attempted to send blog posts thru it yet... but no worries, i haven't forgotten you, dear blog. lots of little random positive and hate msgs running thru my head. will be continuing blog entries soon :)
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